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Socializing is integral to childhood development, but it can be incredibly challenging for foster children. Many of them have experienced trauma and may have difficulty trusting people. They may also be shy or withdrawn. For such children, making friends can be a real challenge. Here are some things you can do to help your foster child build meaningful friendships.

Tips to Help Your Foster Child Build Meaningful Friendships

Help Them Get Involved in Activities

Joining a sports team, taking a dance class, or participating in Scouts are great ways for kids to meet other kids with similar interests. And when children are involved in activities, they tend to be more outgoing and confident.

Encourage Them to Talk to Other Kids

If your foster child is having trouble talking to other kids, encourage them to start small. They can begin by saying hello or asking a question. Once they get more comfortable, they can start having conversations. If your foster child is feeling anxious or shy, remind them it’s okay to be nervous. Reassure them that they can always come to you if they need help.

Teach Them How to Handle Rejection

Foster children may be rejected by their peers for any number of reasons. It’s essential to teach them how to deal with rejection healthily. Help them understand that not everyone will like them, and that’s okay. Please encourage them to keep trying and to focus on the friends they do have.

Model Good Friendship Skills

As a foster parent, you are a role model for your foster child. So it’s important to model good friendships yourself. Be friendly and welcoming to other parents and their children. Invite friends over to your house. And when you’re out in public, take the opportunity to chat with other people. Your foster child will be watching and learning from you.

Helping your foster child make friends can be challenging but essential for their development. By getting them involved in activities, encouraging them to talk to other kids, and teaching them how to handle rejection, you can help them make friends and feel more connected to the world around them. TFI Family Services, Inc. is an agency that specializes in foster care and child welfare. We are committed to helping foster children thrive. For more information about our services, don’t hesitate to contact us.